Latest Writings

  • Finish strong

    65% of the year is finished.  If you are like me, some of the goals have been tossed. Maybe the exercise program hasn’t happened, the trip was not taken, the business is not where you forecasted, the relationship is exactly as it was at the beginning of the year. The first part of the year…

  • All in

    What does it look and feel like to be “all in?” It was 2008 and he wasn’t entranced with Tony Stark. It was chatty computer JARVIS that captured Kothari’s imagination as the voice assistant managed Stark’s sprawling home, maintained his Iron Man suit, and solved complex engineering problems. Kothari thought this could be possible in…

  • Return

    Returning reconciles relationships. Returning is the act of going back to somewhere you have been. Taking the long road back to where the mistake was made, the conversation happened, the division started. Returning shows humility. Only the humble are broken enough to go back. Returning displays love. If one returns, one deeply cares. Returning is…

  • Caught not taught

    Raise your actions to the standard of your beliefs. At a dinner recently, a guy about to have his first child asked a group of more seasoned parents, “what is your number one parenting lesson?” As great wisdom was being gleaned from the parents, one man didn’t share a principle but rather an action. “Every…

  • Leave a quiet legacy

    We have an innate desire to make our name great, elevate who we are as a person, build ourself up. Ever been in a car with five, say 12 year olds? Just sit back and listen. Beneath almost every comment is an undertone of personal greatness. Whether personal skills, wealth, material possessions, vacations, parents, you…